SEEING YOURSELF STARTS with YOU CHOOSING YOURSELF…intentionally.
A brisk walk and a good cry: I’m a cryer y’all… and I ain’t ashamed to own it!!
Since my Segments on The Tamron Hall Show aired so many women from all ages and walks of life have reached out and shared their selfies, their stories, and their challenges as they work towards getting their confidence back or even stepping into it for the 1st time and truly SEEING themselves. Just know that I SALUTE you all and I’m happy to be a part of your journey as I continue to share mine with you.
Full transparency…. I do not have all the answers to everything self-love & confidence related, but I do know that your journey to SEEING YOURSELF STARTS with YOU CHOOSING YOURSELF…intentionally.
Your relationship with yourself sets the bar and the tone for every other relationship that you have.
I want to remind you that it’s NOT selfish to have and maintain a loving relationship with yourself. There is nothing selfish about taking/making the time and energy to heal so that all of you can be revealed…. You and the World will be that much better because of it !
So many of us have been brainwashed by society that we have to put other people first to be a good friend, mom, partner or even a good HUMAN... nah, that’s just how “they” win. “They” teach you to keep yourself on the back burner even while you’re being the whole BACKBONE!!!!
It’s time to Unlearn all of that shit. It’s time to challenge what “they” have said and made us believe.
Why? Because that’s how they keep us quiet and small… striving for approval outside of ourselves…..it’s impossible to be everything for everybody, and even if you try, it only leaves you exhausted and bitter… and forgotten. I know because I’ve been there.
This is why I’m so passionate about women truly seeing themselves and owning all of themselves. WE are the change that the world needs…. It’s time!!